June 14, 2022 in Ask IM

Losing my loved one…

Salaam just wanted to say iv been really down aswell for the past 7 months now I lost my stillborn son about 6month ago me and my wife went thru…
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June 3, 2022 in Ask IM

Is Allah (SWT) punishing me because He is angry with me?

Assalamualaikum, I am really struggling with my Imaan and religion. I have been having doubts and I think I have completely lost faith in religion and Allah and everything. It…
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May 17, 2022 in Ask IM

Does Allah (SWT) exist & what is my reason for existence?

I've reached a point where I'm doubting Allah's existence and question my existence, I even think now that I'm the only person who is conscious while everyone else isn't. It's…
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April 26, 2022 in Ask IM

Mental health and dealing with chronic illness

Asalaamou Alaikum My daughter attempted suicide last month and has talked about wanting to end her life for some time. She feels she has no place in this world or…
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April 19, 2022 in Ask IM

Am I sinning for thinking about Zina?

I just wanted to say thank you for providing this service, may Allah reward you all. This is really embarrassing for me to talk about and so I don't even…
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April 15, 2022 in Ask IM

experiencing extreme mood swings

I'm a woman in my early twenties and have been experiencing extreme mood changes over the past few years. I am easily irritated and am almost always upset. I have…
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April 13, 2022 in Ask IM

Domestic Abuse and Sabr

I have been in a domestic abuse relationship in which l left, but my community make me feel that l did not have sabr. The imam and everyone keeps saying…
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April 4, 2022 in Ask IM

Ramadan & Mental Health

Asalamualaikum. I was wondering if you can help me. For the past couple of years I have been suffering from severe depression and anxiety. And last year was the first…
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March 22, 2022 in Ask IM

I gave birth a month ago and have developed postnatal depression…

Asalamu alaykum wr wb, I hope you're well, I gave birth a month ago and have developed postnatal depression and insomnia so much so that one night I woke up…
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February 1, 2022 in Ask IM

Feeling unappreciated by family

Asalaamualikm, I am writing a situation of my friend. I am a graduate. I belong to a middle class family. I have been a family where women get no appreciation.…
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January 11, 2022 in Ask IM

Am I losing my connection to God?

Asalaamualikm, The past two years have been been the hardest years, with lots of emotional ups and downs. I also made some major mistakes which ended up hurting my parents,…
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December 24, 2020 in Ask IM

I’m struggling with what to do over a friendship which I know I need to step back from

Salaam. I'm currently struggling with what to do over a friendship which I know I need to step back from for my own wellbeing - but it's very difficult when…
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December 17, 2020 in Ask IM

I suffer from envy. Why does Allah give others everything and I get nothing?

I suffer from a lot of envy of people my age who get everything in life, most of my friends are getting married and beginning their own lives, one already…
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November 26, 2020 in Ask IM

I resent Allah for the horrific childhood and parents he gave me

I have a lot of resentment towards Allah for the horrible childhood and parents that he gave me (domestic violence, adultery). I still have a lot of anger, how can…
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July 2, 2020 in Ask IM

I am struggling with intrusive thoughts that attack Allah, am I accountable for these thoughts?

Salaam. So I've basically been having seriously bad thoughts when I pray or out of nowhere. These thoughts attack Allah and other disturbing thoughts as well. This has given me…
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May 28, 2020 in Ask IM

Why does Allah give so much to some people whilst testing others with so many difficulties

Seeing the happy lives and perfect families with beautiful spouses and wonderful looking children of celebrities on Instagram, I always wonder why does Allah give so much perfection to some…
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April 12, 2020 in Ask IM

This isolation is causing me to question whether I am a good Muslim or if Allah loves me

Salaam. During this isolation, I have had a lot of time to think, over the last few days my mind is getting the best of me. I have constantly been…
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January 16, 2020 in Ask IM

I think I’ve fallen in love but we cannot get married and now my anxiety has increased

Salaam, firstly I just wanted to say that this is an amazing platform, I think most of us going through mental health trials always look for a space to speak…
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January 9, 2020 in Ask IM

I have a borderline personality with bipolar disorder and think my husband maybe a narcissist

I have a borderline personality with bipolar disorder who is currently under treatment. I am living with my husband who I think maybe a narcissist. I need help on how…
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November 28, 2019 in Ask IM

I feel so hurt by my past and so fearful of my future

I'm 32, live at home with a mother that has mental health issues. Since the age of 16, she had episodes that have severely impacted myself and my brother. We…
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